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Our Three Kids: Jonathan, Hannah & David Jr.
Our Three Kids: Jonathan, Hannah & David Jr.

I must admit one of the principle things I worry about is my children. My kids, David Jr., Jonathan and Hannah, are now grown. Dawn and I just became empty nesters when we left Colorado last August.
I am learning to trust God in deeper ways through this time. God is indeed faithful!

One of the Hardest Things I’ve Ever Done

The beauty of Colorado Springs (taken by Terry Bradley)
The beauty of Colorado Springs (taken by Terry Bradley)

I can still remember the day we drove off from Colorado Springs, and said good-bye to Jon and Hannah. It was a bittersweet day. Sweet because we attained a dream we had worked for in moving and ministering on the San Diego – Tijuana border. Bitter because Dawn and I had to say good-bye to two of our children.
When the Lord first called us to serve on the border I felt that he confirmed in my heart that he would not tear apart our family. I’ve clung to that promise as Dawn and I have been on this journey.

Jesus’ Healing Words

This morning I was reading in Luke 12. Jesus speaks words of comfort to my soul in this passage found in verses 22 and following.

And he said to his disciples, “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat, nor about your body, what you will put on. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? If then you are not able to do as small a thing as that, why are you anxious about the rest?
—Luke 12:22-26 (ESV)

The impression I get from Jesus’ words is that these basic things we worry about are very simple for God. Your Father loves you, he is good and he promises to take care of you so why do you worry?

Why do I Worry?

I realize one of the reasons I worry is my faith often wavers. I forget that God is good. I forget that God promises to take care of me and my family.
The other reason I worry is that I make an idols out of my children or other things. The problem with idols is that they never satisfy. They can never fill our hearts. Only our Heavenly Father can meet our deepest needs.
Thank you Lord, for being so loving and so patient with me.

Hannah & Jon having some fun
Hannah & Jon having some fun

One of the reason that I’m reminded of all this today is that Dawn and I are in Colorado Springs. We are spending some time with Jon and Hannah. I still would love to have them closer to us, but I’m grateful that our loving Father is taking such good care of them. I’m thankful for Village Seven Presbyterian Church. A church where they have friends, and they can grow and learn.
Thank you Lord, that you are faithful even though I doubt. You are faithful even when I am not.
In His Grip, Dave


  • By Larry Who
    Posted April 19, 2013 at 3:46 pm

    I’d guess more than anything you’re a loving parent who wants to be there for your children. It’s not a bad thing and God put it inside of you. Now, it’s time to move over and trust God. That’s inside you, too. We parents who love our children all go through and struggle through this.

    • By diasolifeontheborder
      Posted April 20, 2013 at 11:45 pm

      God is good to me and my family. I am very grateful for that. Yes I need to keep my eyes on Jesus!

  • By GodGirl
    Posted April 19, 2013 at 4:01 pm

    Thank for sharing your heart. May God fill you with his peace as you entrust your precious ones to his care.

    • By diasolifeontheborder
      Posted April 20, 2013 at 11:45 pm

      Thanks so much for your encouraging words – God is so good!

  • By Debbie
    Posted April 19, 2013 at 7:30 pm

    Thank you for sharing about this Pastor Dave! It helps to know that others worry about their kids too. I can love them so much and feel so responsible for them .. .then forget that they are really HIS , not just mine. God bless you and your family!

    • By diasolifeontheborder
      Posted April 20, 2013 at 11:47 pm

      Yes – that’s a hard lesson to learn. I think it’s something we work on for all of our lives, and God in his grace calls us to look to him and to trust him.

  • By theshepherdspresence
    Posted April 20, 2013 at 8:51 am

    First a question: Are they twins? Now the comment: I love the picture at the top of the post. How sweet to see loving brothers and a sister. Your post to day was one of those that a person wants in print, underlined in places, and tucked into a file for further use as illustration. Sometimes I do that. The Lord has been kind to your family as He uses you. I understand your heart for your children.

    • By diasolifeontheborder
      Posted April 20, 2013 at 11:48 pm

      Thanks so much for your encouraging words. It blesses me that you like what I wrote.
      They aren’t twins, but many people have wondered that ever since they were little.

  • By Pieter Stok
    Posted April 20, 2013 at 8:03 pm

    As a fellow parent of adult children I understand the test of faith that these moments are. God bless!

    • By diasolifeontheborder
      Posted April 20, 2013 at 11:49 pm

      We walk together on this journey of faith – it’s good journey, although the road isn’t always straight

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  • By jeshorowitz123
    Posted April 23, 2013 at 6:37 am

    Reblogged this on THEINC-HIM-Daily-Bible-Meditation Blog.

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